@nbcchicago For years, a Chicago man visited a South Shore bakery without knowing the woman behind his favorite treats was his birth mom. A phone call from the familiar number led to tears, hugs, and a beautiful family reunion that was meant to be. #familyreunion #heartwarming #feelgood #southshore #chicago ♬ original sound - NBC Chicago
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@pleezebfree Hot and Hungry. Hot Flashes are annoying and rude.
♬ original sound - Tracey Monique
@lulusrescue This judge is so fair and always no bs. I love how he cares for those who are infeint lf him #judge#law#nobs #enforcement #fyp#viral#money#ect ♬ original sound - lulusrescue
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— Eric Swalwell (@ericswalwell) October 23, 2024
We all know Donald Trump belongs in a home. Just not the White House. #APlaceForTrump#harriswalz #voteblue pic.twitter.com/9bTfcn8Ouf
An excerpt from Face2FaceAfrica -
Meet the Haitian woman who became Canada’s first Black female interventional cardiologist
BY Dollita Okine
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An excerpt from LoveToKnow -
How to Say 'I'm Sorry for Your Loss' : 77 Supportive Messages
Express your empathy and support with these phrases that are personal and heartfelt.
By Kate Miller-Wilson
Loss is a basic part of life, and we all experience it. Express your empathy for someone's grief with these simple phrases that you can personalize for any situation.
An excerpt from the Associated Press -
South Carolina to build first monument to an African American. Meet Robert Smalls
Robert Smalls made an audacious escape from enslavement to become a pilot and a South Carolina statesman.
By the Associated Press
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| A bust of Robert Smalls, who will soon be the first African American individual with a statue at the South Carolina Statehouse, I s displayed Reconstruction Era National Historic Park, Thursday, Sept. 12, 2024, in Beaufort, S.C. (AP Photo/Jeffrey Collins) |
BEAUFORT, S.C. (AP) — South Carolina is preparing to put up its first individual statue for an African American on its Statehouse lawn, honoring a man who put on Confederate clothes in order to steal a slaveholder’s ship and sail his family and a dozen others to freedom during the Civil War.
But Robert Smalls isn’t just being honored for his audacious escape. He spent a decade in the U.S. House, helped rewrite South Carolina’s constitution to allow Black men equality after the Civil War and then put up a valiant but doomed fight when racists returned to power and eliminated nearly all of the gains Smalls fought for.
Rep. Jermaine Johnson can’t wait to bring his children to the Statehouse to finally see someone who is Black like them being honored.
@amazonny3 They let the blind man shoot the basketball, and then this happened
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An excerpt from BassPlayer -
“I wasn’t interested in learning the ‘correct’ style of playing bass. I was going back to guitar”: Larry Graham explains how his unorthodox six-string style invented slap bass
How the father of slap bass drove the world’s grooviest band
By Nick Wells
Bassists like Larry Graham come around maybe once a century. Widely credited as the man who invented thumping and plucking, or slap bass if you prefer, he switched to bass from guitar and famously began to thump the strings while playing in his mother's band as a teenager.
Joining Sly & The Family Stone in 1967, Graham made his new style the defining sound of funk. No group before or since – with the possible exception of Prince – had such success in crossing funk grooves and pop melodies the way Sly and his band did on tracks such as Stand! and Dance to the Music.
“Dance to the Music stands out as one of my favorite basslines,” Graham told Bass Player. “Bass players weren't using effects up until that point, and that opened the door. Everyday People is also unique because I'm just thumpin' one note with the same rhythm for the whole song. I'd never heard that before.”
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— Interesting As Fuck (@interesting_aIl) October 9, 2024
An excerpt from The Boot -
The Divorce Rate in America is Highest in These Five States
By Evan Paul
With the divorce rate hovering near 43 percent in America, wedding bliss can be just that, or your marriage can end in divorce.
That doesn't stop people from taking the risk, however — nearly 90 percent of people get married by the age of 50.
America has the highest divorce rate in the world, and it's especially bad in some states.
Divorce Rate in America Is Highest in These 5 States
If you're looking to get married and stay that way, you might not want to reside in one of these five states. These states have the highest divorce rate in the country:
5. Oklahoma
4. West Virginia
3. Kentucky
2. Wyoming
1. Arkansas
The divorce in Arkansas is more than 60 percent higher than the rest of the country as a whole! Researches say that Arkansas has a higher number of marriages, so that could be part of why there's higher number of divorces.
Read More: Divorce Rate in America Is Highest in These 5 States | https://theboot.com/ixp/204/p/american-divorce-rate-by-state/?utm_source=tsmclip&utm_medium=referral
The scientific method of parking a car. pic.twitter.com/xS7oqPAwJ1
— Learn Something (@cooltechtipz) September 30, 2024
Jade DeMelody Jackson @THEJADEDEMELODY a journalist with The Indianapolis recently announced that she attending Jarvis Christian University. The school was founded by her great grandfather Thomas Buchanan Frost in 1912,
— Success Is Us (@successisus_) September 20, 2024
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An excerpt from Southern Living -
15 Nearly Forgotten Southern Classics To Make With Your Grandchildren This Year
By Krissy Tiglias
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With all of the trendy desserts these days, it's comforting to return to a classic like banana pudding. Smooth, extra creamy, and perfect for potlucks, picnics, or birthday parties. Break out the spoons and enjoy this dessert together.
02 Frito Pie
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| Photo: Caitlin Bensel; Food Stylist: Torie Cox |
Frito pie, oh my. A little like chili with a surprising ingredient that everyone loves: a bag of Fritos. An individual package of Fritos brand corn chips is the foundation for this recipe that's soul-satisfying and perfect for a chilly autumn tailgate.
04 Our Best Jambalaya
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| Photo: Stacy K. Allen, Props: Josh Hoggle, Food Stylist: Melissa Gray |
Jambalaya is a true Southern classic. While there are many differing opinions on just how to make it the right way, this recipe (which comes together in under an hour) is perfect for a weeknight dinner or Sunday supper.
Click the link below for the recipes for these dishes and many more. - Faye
https://www.southernliving.com/nearly-forgotten-southern-classic-recipes-8723193
An excerpt from Upworthy-
Snoop Dogg shares what made him change his tune on 'derogatory' lyrics about women
Here's to being willing to learn and evolve.
By Annie Reneau
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| Snoop Dogg has become a beloved figure among all ages. |
Imagine if Whitney and Dionne had recorded this song, but only as a duet! pic.twitter.com/89dJHkJ4Zr
— ✨Whitney Stan✨ (@Whitney_Stan_) September 29, 2024
Michael Jordan’s new $70 million Gulfstream G650ER is incredible.
— Joe Pompliano (@JoePompliano) October 8, 2024
The tail number is N236MJ and the custom paint job probably cost over $500,000. pic.twitter.com/T9Q2yAXZxP
From Buzzfeed -
The Lifesaving Items That Doctors Always Pack On Vacation
Medical experts recommend taking face masks, hand sanitizer, tweezers, tape, and more whenever you travel.
by Tessa Flores, HuffPost Staff
According to Dr. Sterling N. Ransone Jr., president of the American Academy of Family Physicians and a full-time family physician in Deltaville, Virginia, having a really good grasp on your specific medical conditions or allergies and the medications needed to treat them is absolutely essential to vacationing safely. (The American Academy of Family Physicians does not endorse any products or services.)
“It’s important to include a one- to two-day day supply of medications taken for chronic conditions, like diabetes or high blood pressure. Things happen. You never know when your luggage may be lost or stolen. A small supply in your first aid kit will relieve worry until your doctor’s office can arrange for a refill near you,” Ransone told us.
He said that this list can include things like epipens, inhalers, glucose kits or aids used to treat coronary issues.
Outside of the realm of medicine, Ransone also said that he packs copies of identifications, passports and health insurance cards for each person traveling. “You never know when you may need to seek care due to accident or illness. It’s also good to have extra copies on hand in case you fall victim to theft,” he said.
You can keep unpacking Ransone’s luggage in the list below, in addition to seeing the travel recommendations of a couple other physicians, too.
1. An economy pack of hand sanitizers
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For the same reason listed above, Ransone will also always travel with a germ-busting rotation of liquid. These are extremely high-rated and trusted options for germ protection in addition to being perfectly packaged for travel.
Get a pack of eight from Amazon for $14.99.
2. A two-pack of pocket-sized strips of duct tape
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According to Ransone, there's not much that he can't fix with duct tape, whether it be used to close wounds or secure splints. That being said, who wants to tote around a huge roll of duct tape around in their suitcase? These flat, pocket-sized mini rolls have five yards' worth of tape each and solve that problem instantly.
Ransone also recommends what he calls "buddy tape," which are cushioned bandages that can be useful for stabilizing jammed or sprained toes and fingers.
Get a two-pack from Amazon for $7.99 (available in seven colors).
5. A 50-pack of DEET-infused towelettes for protection on the go
Amazon
"I hate getting itchy bug bites when traveling. Insect repellent wipes really help. Plus, preventing bites can help you avoid certain infectious illnesses, like Zika and Lyme disease," Ransone said.
These towelettes each contain 30% DEET, one of the most reliable ingredients used to repel Lyme-carrying ticks, and can be rubbed onto exposed patches of skin to provide up to seven hours of protection. The water-based formula is low-odor, non-greasy and non-staining.
"Talk with your family physician if there are vaccines you should get before traveling to parts of the world where these infections are common," Ransone added.
Get a 50-pack from Amazon for $41.50.
https://www.buzzfeed.com/tessaflores/the-lifesaving-items-that-doctors-always-pack-on-vacation
An excerpt from TotalProSports -
Here’s Why The Pittsburgh Steelers Don’t Have Cheerleaders
By Darrelle Lincoln
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| Pittsburgh Steelers fans (Photo by Joe Sargent/Getty Images) |
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| Narnia striking a pose. Image by @amazingnarnia via Instagram A six-year-old British Shorthair cat named Narnia flaunts a truly extraordinary face. His split-colored facial pattern—half gray, half black—sets him apart from the crowd. Then to top the whole look off his piercing eyes add the most distinguished splash of blue. |
An excerpt from 9to5MAC -
Here’s how to schedule messages to Send Later in iOS 18
By Michael Potuck
Note: Send Later in Messages only works with iMessages, not SMS texts
After you set a scheduled message, it will show up on your screen in the thread with a dotted-line bubble.
Tap Edit if you’d like to change the scheduled date/time, want to send it now, or delete the scheduled message.
Nothing compares to moments like these on the campaign trail. pic.twitter.com/oNdwRuPr40
— Kamala Harris (@KamalaHarris) October 8, 2024
@theebillyporter *POLITICS ALERT* The decision is clear y’all Democracy or NOT! This shit ain’t regular or normal. My first and last question is: Undecided about WHAT?!?! #democracy #savedemocracy #keepdemocracy #healdemocracy #voteblue #highlinechronicles ♬ original sound - Billy Porter
An excerpt from TIME -
The Plague of Mediocre Leadership
By Barry Conchie and Sarah Dalton
Have you ever been taught by a teacher who couldn’t teach? We have, and it wasn’t the result of them lacking motivation and desire. Neither was it them missing a teacher-training course module on Friday afternoon one semester. These teachers, although well-intended, should be no where near children and education. They might have always wanted to become a teacher, but they lack the natural talent to be on—even an average one.
It’s the same for managers and leaders. Just like bad teachers, we’ve all met too many examples of these during our careers—bullies, narcissists, micromanagers, and those who graduated cum laude in crass insensitivity. Insecurity lies at the heart of their incompetence, and they see their position as an exercise in authority and control, insisting and directing rather than delegating and trusting. They inflict their mediocrity on everyone in their care. We have both experienced leaders and managers who, in different ways, nearly succeeded in destroying our sense of self-worth and caused us to question our whole reason for being. With managers and leaders, the vast majority are unfit for their roles.
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In our research, we have seen a disproportionate weighting of leaders in a narrow set of attributes and traits, such as action orientation (a predisposition to act before fully thinking things through) and relationship building (connecting to people because of a mutual liking of each other). As strong as these attributes are, they seem to come at the expense of other important traits and dispositions, such as strategic thinking. These two findings combine to produce outcomes that lead to ineffective execution and project missteps.
An example of this occurs when leaders, because of the relationships they build, find it hard to performance manage team members by holding them to account for sub-standard work. Rather than terminate these employees, weaker leaders never address the performance issues and poor behavior and unacceptable performance is tolerated.
Why, then, do so many mediocre managers and leaders get promoted to the highest positions where they fail in large numbers?
Let’s frame our answer by making one thing clear: Exceptional leadership is rare. Mediocre and poor leadership is the norm.
(Bold is mine. This is an excellent article that is spot on. I hope that you have the opportunity to read it in its entirety. - Faye)
From TotalProSports -
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