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Sunday, August 24, 2025

The History of Family Reunions

An excerpt from The Guardian - 

‘A radical act’: the rich history behind the centuries-long tradition of Black family reunions

Festivities usually take place in the summer and often include traditional foods, matching T-shirts and the chance to learn about family ancestry

By Adria R Walker


The Harper family gathered around a picnic table at a family reunion in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, in 1971.
Photograph: Charles "Teenie" Harris/Getty Images


Following emancipation, Jack Johnson had one major goal: to reunite his family. Johnson had been enslaved in North Carolina, Alabama, Louisiana and Mississippi, and had 10 children with JoAnna, his first wife, and another 10 with Hettie Brown, his second wife after enslavement.

Though Johnson managed to find nine of the 10 children he had with JoAnna, the family fruitlessly tried to locate the last child, Rufus. Johnson eventually learned that Rufus had been sold with two other enslaved people to a plantation in Texas. But to this day, Johnson’s descendants continue to search for Rufus’s living relatives.

From emancipation to reconstruction, Black families attempted to reconnect after the destruction wrought by slavery. Formerly enslaved people constantly looked for family members who, like Rufus, had been sold away. The tradition of Black family reunions was born out of this search, and continues throughout the US today with hundreds of thousands of families connecting, reconnecting and celebrating together annually, usually throughout the summer.

The tradition of Black family reunions was born out of this search, and continues throughout the US today with hundreds of thousands of families connecting, reconnecting and celebrating together annually, usually throughout the summer.

The festivities are a time where family members can meet for the first time, catch up over the time passed since they last saw each other and remember relatives who have passed away. They often include teaching and learning family ancestry and history, and cooking and sharing meals with traditional foods.

A November 1888 article in the New York Age. Formerly enslaved people would look for family members using advertisements in newspapers. Photograph: The New York Age

A November 1888 article in the New York Age. Formerly enslaved people would look for family members using advertisements in newspapers. Photograph: The New York Age placed advertisements in newspapers, asked strangers, searched faces and returned to the lands on which they had been enslaved in hopes of reuniting.

Nearly two centuries after Johnson began gathering his family, his descendants met in New Orleans, Louisiana, for a family reunion. Continuing Johnson’s legacy is central to the reunion’s theme. The family has a website, started by Elaine Perryman, dedicated to consolidating and spreading family history.

Ashanté Reese, an associate professor of African and African diaspora studies at the University of Texas at Austin, has been researching Black gatherings for the last two and a half years, attending multiple family reunions across the country.

“This is a thing that makes reunion so special, the tradition that it comes from,” said Reese. “Reading those advertisements, seeing that hope on paper, just made me even more committed to this tradition. These are people who were using the last little bit of money or the last bit of social capital they have. We have all this stuff at our fingertips to be able to stay connected. It feels important to me to honor the longing of people who were recently emancipated by being invested in this tradition.”

!3-Year-Old Basketball Phenom

From Fadeaway World - 

6’11” 13-Year-Old Mohamed Dabone Already Drawing NBA Superstar Comparisons

Mohamed Dabone’s rise challenges basketball norms with age and talent.

By Vishwesha Kumar

 

https://x.com/EuroLeague/status/1933456907278160336 


Mohamed Dabone is quickly becoming one of the most talked-about young basketball prospects in the world, and for good reason. Born in Burkina Faso and now playing in Europe, Dabone stands at a staggering 6’11” with a wingspan reportedly exceeding 7’4”, all at just 13 years old. 

Even more astonishing, reports suggest he was already 6’9” at the age of 12, meaning his growth and physical development have been off the charts. 

His combination of size, athleticism, and skill has drawn comparisons to both Victor Wembanyama and Giannis Antetokounmpo, two of the most unique superstars in NBA history. That’s an extraordinary statement for someone who, under normal circumstances, would just be entering high school.

https://fadeawayworld.net/nba-media/611-13-year-old-mohamed-dabone-already-drawing-nba-superstar-comparisons

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Dude, Don't Do It!

An excerpt from The Guardian - 

‘Being short is a curse’: the men paying thousands to get their legs broken – and lengthened

By Ruth Michaelson


At a leg lengthening clinic in Istanbul, iodine is applied to a patient’s legs
in preparation for surgery to remove the metal rods that have stretched his femurs.
: Bradley Secker/The Guardian



It was on his honeymoon in Kuala Lumpur, looking out of his hotel window at the silvery points of the world’s tallest twin skyscrapers, that Frank decided it was time to become taller. He had recently confessed to his new wife how much his height had bothered him since he was a teenager. As a man dedicated to self-improvement, Frank wanted to take action. He picked up the phone, called a clinic in Turkey that specialises in leg lengthening surgery – and made a booking.

“I had a lot of second thoughts – at the end of the day, someone’s going to break your legs,” he says, propped up on a hotel bed in Istanbul, his legs splayed in front of him, bracketed by a brace on each thigh. His wife, Emilia, tends to him, fetching painkillers and ice packs for the wound sites where the braces puncture his legs. For the first two weeks after surgery, Frank needed her help to get on and off the toilet, but now, six weeks later, it’s largely only to get off the bed.

The bleep of an alarm interrupts our conversation: time to insert a key into the metal bracket on the side of Frank’s thigh and turn it, forcing apart the rods that have been inserted into his femurs. New bone grows into the gap in his thigh bones, one agonising millimetre at time. Each turn of the key dictates how much the patient can grow, and Frank is aiming for five turns each day rather than the four recommended by his doctors, to gain a precious extra quarter of a centimetre. It means more suffering, but Frank is all about putting in the work to get what he wants. “Time to grow!” Emilia says, with a little laugh, as the alarm sounds.

At 5ft 6in (1.7m) tall, slightly under the average male height worldwide, Frank, 38, feels he has lived life “as a short man”. But speak with any patient at the Wanna Be Taller clinic in Istanbul, where Frank chose to undergo leg lengthening, and it becomes clear that shortness is relative. Men over 6ft have had the procedure. One tells me he needed surgery to “correct” his bow legs and decided to add some height at the same time. A slim blond woman – a rare example of a female patient here – who was 5ft 3in before surgery, looks me square in the eyes as she deadpans that shortness “is the last acceptable prejudice in society” to explain why she underwent the procedure to gain two inches. (The clinic also offers leg shortening surgery, though this is far less common; only nine patients have so far had it done, mainly women.)

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If having your leg bones cut in half sounds painful enough, the true agony comes afterwards. Ensconced on the periphery of Istanbul, in a hotel built from what looks like plasterboard and fake gold leaf, about 20 leg lengthening patients spend their days obsessing over their muscles and tendons, making sure they stretch to accommodate their new bones. This means daily physiotherapy to learn how to walk again, blood thinners, massages and a lot of painkillers. While there are few global statistics on the number of people opting to have this done each year, one Indian market research firm estimated the global limb lengthening industry will balloon by 2030 to be worth $8.6bn (£6.4bn).

“I always tell them, 1cm is not more important than your health,” says Serkan Aksoy from Wanna Be Taller, who supervises Frank’s physio. Most of their patients are men, and Aksoy has to dissuade many clients from trying to gain too much height. From the clinic’s perspective, the risks come from patients not adhering to a strict aftercare routine, but problems and even deaths do occur. Blood clots, joint issues, failure to grow new bone tissue, blood vessel injuries, scarring and chronic pain are all potential complications, as well as “ballerina syndrome”, where the achilles tendons fail to stretch adequately, forcing the feet into an exaggerated arch and preventing the patient from walking. Last year, a patient who had flown in from Saudi Arabia died from a blood clot 16 days after undergoing leg lengthening surgery. When I ask Wanna Be Taller about this, they say an investigation by the Saudi authorities found no fault with their surgeon.


Yuto from Japan has surgery to remove his femur stretchers. Photograph: Bradley Secker/The Guardian

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/aug/17/being-short-is-a-curse-the-men-paying-thousands-to-get-their-legs-broken-and-lengthened

Let Me Know When You Made It Home

 


Quietly Ruling the World

 

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Get Well Gifts

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Wanted: Sugar Daddy

 

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A Southern Woman

 

Chewing Gum Gets Your Body Moving Again

An excerpt from the New York Post - 

The first thing you should do after surgery is not what you’d expect — but an anesthesiologist swears it works

By Reda Wigle


Dr. Myro Figura, an anesthesiologist,
shared a hack to get your bowels moving after surgery.

                                                                                         @dotormyro/TikTok

Chew on this.

An anesthesiologist has revealed a surprising hack to make things run a bit smoother after surgery — and by things, we mean your bowels.

“Any surgery in your abdomen stops your bowels from working, basically puts them to sleep. That means nausea, bloating, constipation,” said Dr. Myro Figura.

It’s not just surgery around your stomach. Both the anesthesia and any drugs you may take after surgery can slow down your digestion and leave you struggling to go.

However, a stick of gum can kick your guts back to working order.

“Chewing gum sends a signal to your bowels to restart and wake up from sleep,” the doc said.

https://nypost.com/2025/08/22/health/easy-hack-fights-constipation-after-surgery-do-it-first-thing/

What Are Your Top 10 Love Songs?

An excerpt from LoveToKnow.com - 

10 Best Love Songs of All Time According to the Charts

We guarantee one of these love songs will touch your heart.

By Kate Miller-Wilson

While it's totally subjective, we think it's safe to say that the best love songs tell stories that touch your heart in such a way that they are never forgotten. They spark memories of the joys, fears, pains, heartbreak, and passions of love (long ago or happening right this moment).

Of course, your all-time favorite love song could depend on your age and your taste in music, but those listed below have spent weeks at the top of the charts, won awards, and span many years and genres. These are the ones that are guaranteed to tug at your heartstrings.


  1. "WHEN A MAN LOVES A WOMAN"



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7lp7FtJXp7k&t=21s

   
 2. "THE WAY WE WERE"





4. "I JUST CALLED TO SAY I LOVE YOU"




Pond Elementary Principal Leads Schoolwide Read Aloud of "Ron's Big Miss...



An excerpt from Upworthy - 

Parents complained about 'offensive' book, so the principal read it to the entire school
Apparently learning about the Civil Rights movement is "inappropriate."
By Annie Reneau, Upworthy Staff

Schools often have to walk a fine line when it comes to parental complaints. Diverse backgrounds, beliefs, and preferences for what kids see and hear will always mean that schools can't please everyone all the time, so teachers and educators have to discern what's best for the whole, broad spectrum of kids in their care.

Sometimes, what's best is hard to discern. Sometimes it's absolutely not.

Such was the case when a parent at a St. Louis elementary school complained in a Facebook group about a book that was read to her 7-year-old. The parent wrote:

"Anyone else check out the read a loud book on Canvas for 2nd grade today? Ron's Big Mission was the book that was read out loud to my 7 year old. I caught this after she watched it bc I was working with my 3rd grader. I have called my daughters school. Parents, we have to preview what we are letting the kids see on there."

Fittingly, the Facebook group was titled "Concerned Parents of the Rockwood School District."

The book in question, Ron's Big Mission, highlights a true story from the childhood of Challenger astronaut Ron McNair, who had experienced discrimination as a child in South Carolina because he was Black. In 1959, when he was nine years old, McNair wanted to check out books at the library, but the librarian told him the library didn't loan books to "coloreds." McNair refused to leave the library until he was allowed to check out books. Rather than give him a library card, the librarian called the police, who ultimately convinced her to just let him check out books.

Seriously, what issue could this parent possibly take with such an inspiring story of a kid standing up to injustice and fighting for the right to educate himself?

Saturday, August 2, 2025

They Were More Examples of Forgotten Heroes in the Medical Field

 

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He was the 1st 4-Star African-American General

 

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You Know a Guy Who Needs Encouraging? Send "Em This

 

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Mama Said: "Choose Your Friends Wisely"

 

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLN8xg1uI-X/?igsh=czBnY2g3aWR1ZHds 

This Lady is Speaking the Truth. Is Anyone Listening?

 

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DHwJbiZIGqR/?igsh=eHdpMXA2dWIxczhx 

He Taught a Masterclass on Steps to Success

 

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DH1OUjCgcw6/?igsh=YWIxbWlkdHZvN3p0 

Mission Impossible Theme Song Performed by All-Black Orchestra

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DJ_ufEJxLVM/?igsh=c2RibjZuaDJ1ZWFz 

I Respectfully Disagree

An excerpt from The DailyMail.co.uk - 

Toilet paper over or under? Scientist FINALLY settles the debate - so, do you agree with their method?

By JONATHAN CHADWICK 


Over Method

Under Method

Should toilet paper be hung in front of (over) or behind (under) the roll when it is placed parallel to the wall? A scientist has given the definitive answer


Dr. Primrose Freestone, professor of clinical microbiology at the University of Leicester, says the 'under' orientation is actually safer and more effective (file photo) 

Imagine you are on the toilet doing your business, and the toilet roll is in the 'over' position (with the next square facing you). 

In this scenario, you need to use one hand to hold the toilet roll to stop it from rotating forward, and the other hand to actually tear off the next bit of paper.

In contrast, in the 'under' position, you can pin the next sheet against the wall with one hand as you simultaneously tear it off, according to the academic. 

So you don't have to use the second hand in the process at all – and the overall risk of transferring hand bacteria to the paper is reduced. 

Especially for women, accidental transfer of bacteria from the hand to the genital area can increase the risk of infection. 

And women generally tend to use more paper for men – for number ones and number twos. 

'For the under position, there is less likely to be whole roll contamination,' Professor Freestone told MailOnline. 

'You can pin the sheets against the toilet wall without having to touch the exterior of the roll.' 

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-14801757/Toilet-paper-scientist-settles-debate.html


How a father's persistence unlocked his son's brilliance


Congratulations Howard University Medical Grad Students

 

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I Learn Something New Every Time I Engage With This Young Scientist

 

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