An excerpt from LoveToKnow -
75 Big Questions to Ask Your Parents Before They Die
Of course you have questions for a dying parent, but maybe you're unsure where to start. Use these suggestions to get this meaningful conversation rolling.
By Gabrielle Applebury, LMFT
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Questions to Ask Your Parents Before They Die
Asking your parent or parents questions before they pass away can help you better understand their life, their choices, as well as how they'd like to be remembered after they've passed. You may consider recording their answers in some way to have as a keepsake. You can do so by writing the answers in a notebook, video recording their responses, or audio recording your conversation with them.
Family Questions
Family questions you may consider asking:
- What were your nicknames growing up?
- Can you tell me a little about your siblings?
- Who were you closest to in your immediate family?
- What were your parent(s) or caregiver(s) like when you were growing up?
- What lessons were stressed in your household?
- How was family conflict resolved?
- How was love expressed?
- Who was the funniest member in the family?
- Who was the most competitive?
- Did you have any family pets?
- Where did you live?
- Did you share a room with anyone?
- What memory exemplifies your family's values?
- What was a difficult situation that your family overcame together?
- What did your parent(s) or caregiver(s) do for work?
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