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Monday, November 24, 2014

Blood Sport

Hey smart computer guys, how about using your genius for something worthwhile?

There's plenty of controversy about whether or not video games are contributing to the degradation of  our society.

I am firmly planted in the camp that they do.

Killing is a part of the "fun" of many games, and I think that's causing the value of life, human life, to be seen as inconsequential.

Now, some guys are upping the ante and hooking up players to blood collection systems where when blood is shed or when you die (not sure which) in the game, you actually loose your blood.

Now the good news is, all blood that is collected will be donated to blood banks, but . . .

REALLY???

Here's some free advice guys:

GROW THE HELL UP!!!

Leave the video games to the kiddies (the non-violent ones, of course) and focus your energies on the real problems of the world.

Witness this craziness for yourself below.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/11/24/lose-real-blood-video-game-blood-sport_n_6211376.html

Thanksgiving Dinner Help

Here are some great time saving ideas for your family feast.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/11/24/thanksgiving-hacks_n_6199210.html

Sunday, November 23, 2014

Don't Know Why

I don't know why I still claim Texas as home.

Maybe because that's where I was born and raised, although I lived in California longer (18 vs. 23 years).

Even now, when people ask me where I'm from, after we get pass America, I almost always respond with "Texas."

Can we agree that some of the most ignorant, dumbest, most backwards-thinking, fear-mongering folks reside here?

The latest outlandish move is adopting textbooks that push facts, truths and science to the margins, if they're present at all.

And don't get me started on voter suppression and redistricting to squash votes.

You can guess whose.

And yet, in spite of all of this evidence, and the opportunity to re-write history for myself and claim another state, I still claim Texas.

What in the world is wrong with me?

Do I willfully want to be associated with ignorance of this magnitude?

Or, is it because deep down, I realize that's the place that molded and shaped me into the person I am today.

For better or for worse.

Check out the link below to see stupidity in action.

http://www.nytimes.com/2014/11/23/us/texas-approves-disputed-history-texts-for-schools.html?action=click&pgtype=Homepage&region=CColumn&module=MostViewed&version=Full&src=mv&WT.nav=MostViewed




She's Not the Only One

Now, I don't know if black folks inherently have "black-dar," a kind of supersonic radar that helps us find other people who are like us, but nine times out of ten, we can identify another black person from way off.

First glance at the young woman in this film, and you can see she's black.

Why couldn't others see the obvious?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?list=UUr9TEsXlmcmorp8XHCj7Wtg&v=nHq3DevkXqA

One Lucky Lady

This little old lady was treated to a kiss on the cheek by a basketball player during the game.

I don't even like basketball, but I love this guy!

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/11/23/javale-mcgee-kisses-woman-fan-nuggets-video_n_6207386.html

Stuff Signed Sealed Delivered - Live at Montreux 1976



Same guys playing the heck out of Stevie Wonder's "Signed, Sealed, Delivered."

They make it look easy, don't they?

You can find them on the Qello Concert App under FUNK.

FUNK is fitting.

Stuff - Lift Every Voice and Sing(Live @ Montreux 1976) . . . AND THE CHURCH SAID "AMEN!"



Just discovered these guys on a new app called Qello Concerts that is a storehouse of live concerts.

I got out of bed to post this.

It was just too good to delay.

Let's have some church up in here!


Saturday, November 22, 2014

What's Playing

The website below is pretty cool.

http://beta.radiooooo.com

It's a map of the world.  You click on an area, and popular songs by the decade will play.

Be patient.  It takes a minute for them to load.

Friday, November 21, 2014

"All About That Bass" Avi Kaplan ft. Mario Jose and Naomi Samilton (Megh...




This is a silly song, but these guys could sing the names in the phone book and I'd listen.

You'll recognize the bass singer from the group Pentatonix.

Side note - I just discovered how to embed videos and I'm kinda having fun with this.

Don't worry.

I'll get over it soon.

Until then,

Enjoy!

Andrea Bocelli & Heather Headley - 'The Prayer'



Two of my favorite folks . . . together!

Now We Know

Who killed Sam, on "How to Get Away With Murder."

STOP READING IF YOU HAVEN'T SEEN THE EPISODE ENTITLED "KILL ME.  KILL ME.  KILL ME."

I was surprised.

I didn't think it was "the pup."

Not innocent, doe-eyed Wes.

THEN.

When Wes says, "I'm so sorry" to the corpse that is Sam,  he hears, "Don't be."

WHAT?!?!!!

Sitting in the dark with the dead body of her husband lying on the floor in front of her, Annalise reveals herself.

Now, this is just me, but I think this is when she schools Wes on "how to get away with murder" and everything that happens after that is orchestrated by her.

I love this woman.

I know she's wicked, mean, self-serving, and wrong on so many levels, but DAMN she is wicked smart and powerful, too.

I understand completely why Tony Soprano was loved, in spite his felonious behavior.

Back to "How to Get Away With Murder."

Now what?

Does life go back to normal for everyone involved is this murder?

Do one or more of the kids crack under the weight of the guilt?

How does the relationship between the Keating Five and Annalise change?  Do they still admire her or are they afraid of her and what she could do to them?

I know.

I know.

It's just a tv show, and . . .

Yes, I should get a life, but . . .

This is tv at it's best.

All hail Shonda Rhimes.

This is the real smokin' smart sista.

Here's one of the many recaps on this episode.

http://link.theroot.com/53bac403dd52b82c5d00c60220fda.3i5/VG-0uEmOBfcmbusKA7af1


Thursday, November 20, 2014

Mama Said

"What you do in the dark, will come out in the light.  It might not be today, maybe not tomorrow, but it's gonna happen."

I have been reminded of this with the Cosby fiasco that is getting uglier with each passing day.

As Forrest reminded me, "The chickens are coming home to roost."

It's Early


Holiday Dinner Party

I know it's early for Christmas music, but I absolutely love it and since Christmas is not celebrated here, I tend to long for it, especially now.

So please indulge me.
(Hat tip:  Forrest)

Taking Charge

I love this guy!

He's a former NFL player who left football, bought a farm that feeds the hungry, and to top it off, delivered his son when the baby came faster than help.

He's a great example of . . .

Brawn.

Brains.

And . . .

Heart.

http://ftw.usatoday.com/2014/11/ex-nfl-player-delivers-his-own-child-on-a-farm?csp=Mostpopular

Good Idea?

Somebody thought these high school kids in blackface was a good idea.

You?

http://www.theroot.com/blogs/the_grapevine/2014/11/high_school_powder_puff_football_team_s_blackface_photo_goes_viral.html?wpisrc=newsletter_jcr%3Acontent%26

Hidden Gifts & Talents

Forrest, my second brother, older by ten years, is a master story teller.

Always has been.

He's also an entertainer and wonderful musician.  Although his skills as a singer and musician on the saxophone and flute are amazing, it's his monologues between songs that folks enjoy the most.

Writing was never his strong suit.

Very recently though, he decided to write his story.

On one of our chats, he shared this with me.

Well, I can testify firsthand that writing is not a strength, so it was with hesitation that I opened the file containing his narrative.

And there appeared another example of hidden gifts and talents bestowed from God, that we don't even know we possess.

That's the only explanation for this marvelous manifesto he is producing.

I had heard bits and pieces of his story over the years, but with the age difference, he experienced so much before I was even born.  That time alone could fill volumes.

I couldn't be prouder of him.

One day I hope to share his story with you.

He's 68 and discovering his hidden talent.

I promise, it's not too late for you, no matter what your age.

Ok. I Can See That.

This article suggest that the Arab Spring was caused by Dubai.

Not necessarily by these other Arab countries wanting freedom and democracy, but by the fact that they saw the world that the Dubai created, and wanted/longed for their country to be like this.

Interesting theory, for sure.

http://www.nytimes.com/2014/11/19/opinion/thomas-friedman-did-dubai-do-it.html?action=click&pgtype=Homepage&region=CColumn&module=MostEmailed&version=Full&src=me&WT.nav=MostEmailed&_r=0


Honk

Honk is a new roadside service app.

It's gonna give AAA a run for their money.

It's available for iPhones and Androids.

Check them out in this article below, followed by their website.

http://www.usatoday.com/story/tech/columnist/talkingtech/2014/11/19/app-promises-quicker-roadside-assistance/19242149/?csp=tech

http://www.honkforhelp.com

I should get paid for these endorsements, right?

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Watch Her

She's amazing!

http://www.theroot.com/articles/culture/2014/11/_7_year_old_plays_for_peace_in_ferguson.html?wpisrc=newsletter_jcr%3Acontent%26

Who Killed the Scoundrel?

We find out this week who killed Sam on "How to Get Away With Murder."

You get the chance to vote at the bottom of the article below.

http://www.theroot.com/articles/culture/2014/11/poll_who_killed_sam_on_how_to_get_away_with_murder.html?wpisrc=newsletter_jcr%3Acontent%26


[Official Video] Mary, Did You Know? - Pentatonix (I LOVE THESE GUYS!)

Tuesday, November 18, 2014

Robotic Houses

A project lasting several years, located in Knoxville, Tennessee, fitted three empty homes with robots that simulated average American homeowners consumption of energy.

The results:  fascinating.

http://www.popsci.com/blog-network/zero-moment/robohouse-project-pumped-simulated-sweat-and-breath-empty-homes

The Languages We Speak

It never ceases to amaze me how fluent so many people are in speaking two, three, four or more languages.

This is especially evident here with the ex-pat community being so large and varied. There are people here from all over the world.

The article below features maps that represent the many languages we speak, and the origin of them.  Some of them are arcane, but keep going, they gather steam and are pretty interesting as you move along.

http://www.vox.com/2014/11/17/7082317/language-maps-charts

Great Apps

I have this app on my iPhone called "Appsgonefree."  Everyday it offers free apps that would otherwise cost.  There are a lot of things I'm not interested in like games, or productivity apps, but sometimes, the featured apps are nuggets of gold.

Like today.

The free apps are:

iComm = a picture and voice communication aid for toddlers or non-speaking folks with disabilities.

Language Lab:  Core Words = teaches kids core words through visual association

iAdvocate = a comprehensive resource for parents of kids with disabilities helping them to be the most effective advocate

Please pass this info on to others who might benefit from it.


Monday, November 17, 2014

A Better Bike

Chilean engineering students have created a theft-proof bike.  Here's another example of necessity being the mother of invention.

Check out their prototype below.

http://college.usatoday.com/2014/11/16/engineering-students-design-a-bike-that-cant-be-stolen/?csp=tech

Alive and Well

For those of you who thought the Klu Klux Klan was a thing of the past, think again. Their threats to the folks in Ferguson, Missouri opens the window a crack into their devious, deadly behavior.

http://www.dailykos.com/story/2014/11/16/1345394/-Anonymous-Seized-the-Klan-s-Main-Twitter-Account-This-Morning?detail=email

Ouch!

This is what happens to our feet when we wear those gorgeous sky high shoes.

It ain't pretty.

http://www.salon.com/2013/08/27/study_wearing_high_heels_causes_long_term_foot_damage_clawing_of_the_toes/

He Joins Tiger

Bill Cosby has joined Tiger Woods in my list of low-down, dirty, think-they're-above-the-law, can-get-away-with-anything, men.

May they all rot in hell.

Too harsh?

OK.

Yeah.

I remember my mantra.

Forgiveness.

No matter what.

But . . .

OK.

As my dear friend Deb says "Lord, I apologize."

How about . . .

May their wieners wear out from overuse/misuse?

I know.

You're right.

I'm a work in progress.

Just please, don't remind me of this post the next time I'm preaching forgiveness to you.






A Brave Soul

This white guy is brave enough to speak the truth in the face of plenty who think his message is unnecessary and redundant.

Bravo Mr. Kristof.

http://www.nytimes.com/2014/11/16/opinion/sunday/when-whites-just-dont-get-it-part-4.html?action=click&pgtype=Homepage&region=CColumn&module=MostEmailed&version=Full&src=me&WT.nav=MostEmailed&_r=0


Sunday, November 16, 2014

Learning to Love Herself

Is what has helped to make Lupita Nyong'o a role model for us all.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/11/16/lupita-nyongo-quotes_n_6154440.html?utm_hp_ref=entertainment&ir=Entertainment

Hmmmm

Some of these looks are questionable at best.

Others, spot on.

What do you think?

Be patient.  It took a minute for the pictures to load.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/11/13/stylish-men-instagram_n_6154730.html

Helping or Enabling?

For those of you old enough to remember Elvis Presley, this is clear-eyed view of his cause of death.  The similarity between his demise and Michael Jackson's is uncanny.

http://www.salon.com/2014/11/16/the_elvis_presley_coverup_what_america_didnt_hear_about_the_death_of_the_king/?source=newsletter

Saturday, November 15, 2014

Promoting His Movie

Here's Chris Rock.

http://deadline.com/2014/11/chris-rock-charlie-rose-interview-top-five-black-fame-whites-race-1201285487/

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Use To It

Long ago, I got used to being the only one.

Growing up, I was the only girl with three brothers.

Once we integrated schools, I was the only black in many of my classes.

That's why going to a predominately black college was so refreshing.  I was surrounded by people who looked like me, all moving in the same direction.

That all-black experience was an aberration though.  An outlier in a life of mostly being in settings where I was the only one.

My point is, as black folks in America, many of us are used to this state of being.

It is what it is.

We're use to being the different one.

We're use to the isolation.

So, we learn to deal with it.

Some assimilate.

Some imitate.

Some isolate.

All of us cope, some better than others.

This article is about a young black woman in the tech industry and how she fared being "the only one."

https://medium.com/theli-st-medium/the-other-side-of-diversity-1bb3de2f053e

We Need Canadians to Vote

From our comrades up north.


Hat tip to Forrest.

Missing Persons

This is a graphic of the states with the most missing persons.

Very interesting.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/11/10/most-missing-persons-state_n_6110476.html?utm_hp_ref=entertainment&ir=Entertainment

Monday, November 10, 2014

Yep

This characterization of President Obama and his presidency is spot on.

http://www.nytimes.com/2014/11/10/opinion/charles-blow-the-obama-opposition.html?action=click&pgtype=Homepage&region=CColumn&module=MostEmailed&version=Full&src=me&WT.nav=MostEmailed&_r=0

Clever Gifts

The Grommet is a website I visit often for unique gifts.

Check out these map creations.

https://www.thegrommet.com/neighborwoods-handcrafted-cedar-maps?utm_campaign=20141110B&utm_content=13165&utm_medium=email&utm_source=CC&trk_msg=4IB5QDP05TM4H8TU8LBDFOODRO&trk_contact=6PJ17299EJ5SLGM27119G0AQ7K

Be Careful!

Those of you with little ones in your world, be mindful of the laundry pods that kids are getting into that are hazards to their health.  Statistics in the article below states one kid a day heads to the hospital because of these things.

http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/11/10/laundry-pods-child-hospital/18663007/


Fresh Toilet Seat

A revolutionary way to freshen bathroom air is Kohler's Purefresh toilet seat.

Check it out below.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/11/06/smart-toilet-seat-deodorizes-air_n_6115006.html

Saturday, November 8, 2014

The Upside of Aging

There is an upside to aging, and more and more I appreciate it.

There is a calmness now, when there used to be chaos and fretting.

There is patience to see things from other points of view, when there used to be only one way . . . mine.

There is the freedom to be myself, and really, truly not give a hoot, when years were spent trying to please others.

There is peace of mind.  Actually, it's the choice to hand peace of mind, instead of frantic thoughts that clouded my judgement.

This article expands on this . . . the upside of aging.

http://www.nytimes.com/2014/11/09/opinion/sunday/frank-bruni-gray-hair-and-silver-linings.html?hp&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&module=c-column-top-span-region&region=c-column-top-span-region&WT.nav=c-column-top-span-region 

Terrific Television

If you've never heard of, or not a fan of, Shonda Rhimes?  What in the world is wrong with you?

This lady has single-handedly recharged and re-energized television by creating smart, creative, entertaining fare.  Her current shows are Grey's Anatomy,  Scandal, and How To Get Away With Murder.  She completely dominates Thursday nights on ABC.

The thing that makes her shows so good is she fills them with brilliant, flawed characters who can solve the problems of the world, but stumble and bumble in their personal lives.  They are brilliant misfits who rule their world.  And, she staffs her shows with incredibly talented actors who are a true reflection of our world.  Her rainbow coalition is black, white, brown, yellow, and at mixture of all of the above, but most of all, they are kickass.

So, do yourself a favor, if you're not already on it, by jumping on this bandwagon if you want to be seriously entertained.

Here's an interesting article by one of Shonda's many disciples.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/rachel-braun-scherl/shondaland_b_6058440.html?utm_hp_ref=tv&ir=TV


Toddler Tricks

This is a silly video clip of bedtime antics of a four-year-old portrayed by a man.

This is not at all what my parenting looked like back then, but maybe some of you can relate.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/11/05/convos-with-my-4-year-old-bedtime-_n_6109378.html


Friday, November 7, 2014

I Don't Know

I can't decide if I appreciate what this man is doing or not.

He's a police officer who buys signs from homeless people that they are holding up (for a couple of bucks he says in the video; the article says $5), then takes their picture, and paints it on the sign.

Is he helping them or exploiting them?

Is he trying to bring awareness to the homeless problem in his city/country, or is he a self-promoter, taking advantage of these hard-on-their-luck folks?

Watching the video didn't help.  He comes off slimy to me.

What do you think?

http://news360.com/digestarticle/v9gXCCsRpUmKri-aRfVpeg




What Happens to Our Bodies

This is an intriguing article on the decomposition process of our bodies when we die.  It features a "body farm" that studies this.

Morbid?

Yes.

Engrossing?

For sure.

Warning:

The images in the article are blackened, and if you're queasy like me, you might leave them that way.  Also, there's a video, but I didn't watch it.  My imagination was all that was needed to get the picture.

http://www.vox.com/2014/10/28/7078151/body-farm-texas-freeman-ranch-decay

Thursday, November 6, 2014

The Young Builder

This is a kit for a beautiful marble run.  Unfortunately it's not suitable for the little ones in my world, but it's too much fun not to share.

It's featured on The Grommet, but is also available for purchase from Amazon.

Here's to hours of playtime for the young, and the young at heart.

https://www.thegrommet.com/mindware-q-ba-maze?utm_campaign=20141106&utm_content=7986&utm_medium=email&utm_source=CC&trk_msg=VAKCNC2OLRFKV3GTUCM23G0QHG&trk_contact=6PJ17299EJ5SLGM27119G0AQ7K

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

When in Rome . . .

Heed the warning signs.

http://www.thenational.ae/uae/american-70-held-for-taking-photos-in-restricted-area?utm_source=Communicator&utm_medium=Email&utm_content=&utm_campaign=Abu%20Dhabi%20population%20doubles%20in%20eight%20years

Perks

For locals in my world.

http://m.apnews.com/ap/db_268743/contentdetail.htm?contentguid=IgiKA1l7

Weary in Well-Doing

This is another piece by the writer in the previous post.  It's about the weariness of writing about racism.

https://medium.com/matter/the-racism-beat-6ff47f76cbb6

A Tender Story

A young man writes about his Mom.

It's a lovely read.

Long, but worth the time.

https://medium.com/matter/on-kindness-819ce388f976

It's All Relative

The size of things in the solar system, compared to things we're familiar with.

Interesting.

http://astronomycentral.co.uk/astronomy-the-size-of-stuff/

Science is Fun!

This hands on museum in the San Francisco Bay Area gives kids, young and old, a chance to have some serious, experimental, exploratory fun.

If you're in that area, you have to check it out . . . for me . . . and let me know what you think.

http://tinkering.exploratorium.edu//chain-reaction

Watch the quick video at the end of the article.  It's pretty darn cute.

Sunday, November 2, 2014

Street Art

This can be a powerful medium.

Check out the murals below.

My favorite is #1.

What's yours?

http://news360.com/digestarticle/-EysSaX1Y0qBEv_zYfMIeg

Give Your Old House New Tricks

Some of the gadgets featured in this clip are easily doable and can give your old house some new tricks.

http://www.usatoday.com/videos/tech/personal/2014/11/02/18368769/

Saturday, November 1, 2014

Technology - WOW!

These are folks performing in NYC's subway stations brought together by technology.

Incredible!

http://vimeo.com/109672232

Parenting Advice

This comes from Deion Sanders, aka Primetime.

http://www.usatoday.com/story/experience/weekend/entertainment/2014/10/29/deion-sanders-is-owns-primetime-papa/18125109/

I love this guy!

My Ad Man

Check out Ben in the ad below.

http://vimeo.com/110426711

Yes.

I'm a proud momma.


Powerful Short Film

The 14-minute movie captures the empathy, or lack thereof, of the heartache that has been reeling in the black community for years, with a bubbling up of incidents recently, that makes this message especially timely.

http://www.theroot.com/articles/culture/2014/11/with_american_short_film_nate_parker_hopes_to_inspire_white_empathy_about.html?wpisrc=newsletter_jcr%3Acontent%26

Thursday, October 30, 2014

Riveting!

Not long ago, I mentioned a podcast that was getting a lot of attention.  I had not yet listened to it.

Now, I can speak from experience.

It's absolutely riveting.

I listen to it on my long drives, and I've actually slowed down to finish an episode before arriving at my destination.

It's called "Serial."

Like a good book, on the one hand I can't wait to finish the series, but on the other, I don't want it to end.

You can find it here:

serialpodcast.org

Don't take my word for it, check out a review of it below, and then, take some time and . . .

Listen up.

http://www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2014/10/podcasts-so-good-you-want-to-binge-listen/382055/






Wednesday, October 29, 2014

Better Teachers

There is no doubt in my mind that the person teaching a class makes an enormous difference in the lives of the students in their charge.

They can propel the kids forward or retard their growth.

The effective ones can move mountains.

The ineffective ones become a part of the mountain that needs to be moved.

Should the responsibility of educating kids rest solely on teachers?

No.

Absolutely not.

Does it?

Many times, yes.

Are there institutional hindrances to some kids' succeeding, like poverty and neglected schools?

For sure.

Do we throw up our hands in defeat when face with these obstacles?

We shouldn't, but many do.

There are solutions, but the politics of getting them in place can be overwhelming.

The article addresses some things that could be done.

The success of the US as a competitive force in the world depends on us getting this right, and soon.

http://www.nytimes.com/2014/10/29/opinion/frank-bruni-toward-better-teachers.html?src=me&module=Ribbon&version=origin&region=Header&action=click&contentCollection=Most%20Emailed&pgtype=article


Which One Are You?

Assuming you're a parent, are you the "default one?"

Find out below.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/m-blazoned/the-default-parent_b_6031128.html


The Great Debate

Watch these elementary school kids debate country life vs. city life.

It's less than five minutes.

Too cute.

Note the teacher.

He looks like he's 12.

http://www.noisyclassroom.com/index.html


We Take This for Granted

As Americans, we take our freedom of speech for granted.

http://www.thenational.ae/uae/courts/online-verbal-insults-are-punishable-in-any-emirate-uae-supreme-court-rules?utm_content=

Another View

Here's a recent newspaper article in reference to ISIL.

http://www.thenational.ae/world/middle-east/joint-us-uae-task-force-to-choke-off-isil-funding?utm_content=

A New Face

A lot has been written about Renee Zellweger's new face.  I've never been a fan so I kinda blew past all of the hoopla.

Until I read this guy's story.

Really, it's not so much his story, but the comments to it when it was published in a London newspaper.

Those British tongues can be quite tart.

See for yourself.

http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2014/10/28/rene-zellweger-and-me/?_php=true&_type=blogs&_r=0

Tuesday, October 28, 2014

Differences

The are subtle, and not so subtle, cultural differences that we ex-pats experience every day.

For instance:

---Time is relative.  If you make an appointment and arrive sometime within the hour of when you're supposed to be there, you're OK.

---Meetings always begin with coffee and light snacks, for those folks who do arrive on time and have to wait for the late comers.

---The greetings here are lyrical.  There is the double cheek kiss and the litany of prayers that they say to each other, even when they see each other everyday.  It is especially pronounced when they greet each other sporadically.  Women greet women and men greet men.

---This elaborate greeting happens, no matter when they arrive.  We could be in the middle of a meeting, but everything stops for folks to greet each other.

---Cell phones ringing in a meeting is no big deal.  Answering the call and proceeding with a full-on conversation is not taboo either.

---Side bar conversations during meetings are constant.  It really rattles Western presenters.

---Deadlines are fluid.

---The art of calendaring events is virtually non-existent.  Things are happening all the time, but notice is by word of mouth.

---Last minute changes happen frequently, but again, the information goes out word of mouth.

---There is no such thing as a "working lunch."  When you break for lunch, that time is sacred and is expected to be undisturbed.  A new teacher made the mistake of keeping her class in to finish work during their lunch break, and was quickly called on the carpet for that faux pas.

---Correct spelling in not important.  Most everything is spelled several ways, and it's up to you to decipher what it is.  The town where I live has at least five difference spellings, all of them official, meaning they are found on maps, office buildings, etc.

---Kids play unattended in the neighborhood.  Even toddlers, as young as two or three.

---Kids run - full force, like they're outside - in the hallways at school, without restraint or reprimand.

---Many boys, when you're trying to reprimand them, run from you, like you're going to play a game of chase with them.

These are some of the things we experience that are quite different from what we're used to.  These things are not necessarily wrong, but they are different, and require an adjustment in thinking.


Looking Sharp

Emirates is the official airline of Dubai, and this article is about their flight attendants.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/21/emirates-flight-attendants_n_5999818.html

Monday, October 27, 2014

Un-invited

Bill Maher is scheduled to be the commencement speaker at UC Berkeley's December graduation ceremony.  Some of the students are not happy about this because of his recent comments on Islam.

So, an "un-invite" is in the works.

Check it out.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/27/bill-maher-berkeley-commencement_n_6058102.html

Not Black Enough, Part 2

What do you think?

http://blackamericaweb.com/2014/10/26/how-black-do-you-have-to-be-to-be-black-enough/?omcamp=es-baw-nl&utm_source=Sailthru&utm_medium=email&utm_term=BAW%20Subscribers%20%28Daily%29&utm_campaign=2014-27-10-%20BAW%20Daily

A Tech Pioneer in Diversity

Inspiring post #2.

http://www.usatoday.com/story/tech/2014/10/26/ken-coleman-african-american-tech-pioneer-talks-about-diversity/17747925/

Be Inspired

My Momma used to say, "No matter how hard you think you have it, there are many others who are so much worse off than you, so no matter where you find yourself, be grateful."

I was reminded of this when I watched the video clip below.

It will take six minutes of your time.

I promise you, you'll be inspired.

http://www.upworthy.com/he-got-invited-to-a-random-event-on-facebook-it-ended-up-changing-his-life?c=upw1


Sunday, October 26, 2014

Change of Heart

This article is long, but one of the best I've read on how the reality of seeing your point of view invalidated by the reality of life all around you, that somehow you'd never noticed before.

http://www.salon.com/2012/09/10/why_i_left_the_gop/

Saturday, October 25, 2014

Father/Son Relationships

This is an insightful article about the relationship of fathers and sons as it relates to the presidency.

Very interesting.

http://www.nytimes.com/2014/10/26/opinion/sunday/frank-bruni-fathers-sons-and-the-presidency.html?_r=0

Thursday, October 23, 2014

Not Black Enough

When Ben and Frankie were growing up and we were making decisions about their education, we chose the best schools we could find, and/or afford, and most times they were in the extreme minority where they were the only black kids in their classes.

Culturally, they would be in a desert, but that was OK because I was so "black conscious," I was sure that was enough.  I thought they'd get all of the cultural exposure at home and through planned events geared in large part for this.

Boy, was I wrong.

Again, the decisions were made with the best intentions, though.

What I didn't realize, is what the parents of the black woman in the previous post being raised in an all-white environment also didn't recognize, is that kids need peers who look like them and share some of the same experiences as them.

I was hurt, upset, disappointed, and angry when Ben and Frankie started dating, and there wasn't a black girl in the mix . . .

AT ALL!

I felt it was an absolute slap in the face to me as a black woman, that their standard of beauty was like so many others, leaning heavily toward blond and blue-eyed.

I was pissed.

And yet, they always came back with, "It's your fault Mom.  Look at where we went to school.  Look at who our peers are.  This was designed in large part by you."

Well, damn.

I did not want to hear that.

But, it was the truth.

The grand plan had succeeded greatly in one area, in the education they received, but socially, it had failed.

Or had it?

Doors of opportunity were opened that would have been unheard of in my day, and those opportunities led to their meeting wonderful women that became their wives.

But, I still live with this nagging feeling of failure.

Of course, hindsight is 20/20.

If given a chance to do it all over again, I would absolutely do some things differently.

First, I would get off my high horse of "blackness," thinking I was enough to spread all the black knowledge they needed, and make sure they had many more opportunities to be with kids who looked like them and shared experiences of growing black in this very white world.


Growing Up in An All-White Environment

I believe there's a special place in heaven for (most) people who adopt kids.

Raising children can be wonderful, joyous, and thrilling, but it is not for the faint of heart.  It takes a lot of work on the best of days.

I also think that people who adopt kids outside of their own race, do it with the best intentions, and many times with great results.

But there's another side of the story that warrants examination.

This quick video clip is a black woman discussing being raised by a white family in an all-white environment.  It sheds light on the challenges families like hers face.

http://live.huffingtonpost.com/r/highlight/what-its-like-as-a-black-woman-growing-up-in-a-white-family/5434208cfe3444f7d10006cf?cn=tbla






To Whup or Not to Whup . . .

That is the question.

This topic garnered a lot of discussion recently, including here on this site.  It is not my desire, nor intent, to rehash what's already been said, but a new television show, "Black-ish" did an awesome job of addressing the problems associated with this aspect of child rearing.  It was more nuanced than any other discussion about this that I've seen or heard.

Definitely worth checking out.

The episode is called "Crime and Punishment."

You can find it on abc.com, hulu, Amazon or iTunes 

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

It's My Picture!

The Dish is a website that I visit often, and it has a cool feature called, "A View From My Window," where people send in pictures they've taken from inside wherever they are.

I submitted one of mine that was taken in Armenia, and it was featured in their contest where you have to guess where this is.

http://dish.andrewsullivan.com/2014/10/18/the-view-from-your-window-contest-227/

What a treat!

Tuesday, October 21, 2014

Sheet Music

I stumbled on this app in the iTunes Store called forScore, that provides an enormous catalog of sheet music for all of you musicians out there.

https://appsto.re/us/iuJRv.i

There really is an app for everything!

Monday, October 20, 2014

Six Minutes of Truth

This young North Carolina Representative nails what's wrong with our government. Based on the response of those he's talking to, I'm guessing his tenure might be short lived.

That's a pity.

http://vimeo.com/102299905

Scattered

If you've ever had a conversation with me, you know that I'm known for jumping around, moving from subject to subject.

There was a dear friend and mentor that I used to meet with once a month or so, and he'd always bring a pad to jot down the ideas and thoughts that were shared, to make sure he followed the flow of the conversation.

One day he asked how my boys were able to follow chats with me.

Of course, it was natural for them.  My scattered-brained conversations were all they knew.

I thought of this recently when someone commented on the many varied things I post about.

In my mind's eye, when I publish something, it's me having a conversation with you.

It's a little one-sided, but you get my drift.

These are things that interest me, and hopefully you find them interesting as well.

So, thanks for hanging in there, as I jump from pillow to post.

I'll always be grateful that you're taking this ride with me.




Saturday, October 18, 2014

Who Knew?

This article in the New York Times about an autistic kid having conversations with Siri, Apple's “intelligent personal assistant” is illuminating.  Who knew this technology would be helpful in this way?

Fascinating!

http://www.nytimes.com/2014/10/19/fashion/how-apples-siri-became-one-autistic-boys-bff.html?action=click&pgtype=Homepage&region=CColumn&module=MostEmailed&version=Full&src=me&WT.nav=MostEmailed&_r=0

Jimi

There are two camps when the discussion of Jimi Hendrix comes up, those who love him, and those who don't.  I'm most definitely in the latter one.

Like many talented artists who have died young, I think he was gifted beyond measure, trying to find his place in the world, and succumbed to the perils of drug use.

His was a complicated life, about to be immortalized on screen by the new movie, "Jimi:  All is By My Side" starring Andre Benjamin (aka Andre 3000).

In anticipation of that, this rather extensive article describing his relationship and conflict with the black community, is explored.

http://www.cnn.com/2014/10/18/showbiz/jimi-hendrix-invisible-legacy/index.html

Friday, October 17, 2014

Unique Jobs

The most unique job in every state.

Interesting.

I hope this is clear enough to read.  If not, follow this link:

http://big.assets.huffingtonpost.com/UniqueJobs.png




If I Could

You've all heard people say, if they could have a chat with their younger selves, they would say this or that.

Here's what I would say.

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Be true to yourself.

Make yourself happy.

Don't spend a millisecond trying to please someone else.  Or trying to make someone else happy.  They are responsible for their own happiness, not you.

You look fine.

Your hair is fine.

Your weight is fine.

Stop finding fault and hating yourself.

Learn to love and appreciate yourself for who you are and what you bring.

Surround yourself with people who appreciate you for who you are, and quickly ditch those who try to blame their shortcomings on you, trying to make you feel bad.

Love yourself at every age.

Find the beauty in being you.

Don't be afraid to speak up, but know that sometimes, silence speaks volumes.

Be quick to forgive, yourself and others.

Treat people the way you want to be treated . . . always, even when it goes against the grain.

Pay attention to the older people in your life.  A word of wisdom from them can be more meaningful than reading a library of self-help books.

Take the time to discover who you are, and then nurture that person.

Always remember the people who helped you along the way.

And . . .

Just be you.

This is me in an undated photo after Frankie's birth.
I'm 28 or so.


Side note - Apologies to folks who received an earlier version of this post.  I was experiencing technical difficulties that the Google boys helped me with.  Thank God for them boys (and girls)!





                           

One of the Best

Without a doubt, one of the best shows that's ever been on TV is "The Wire."  It is set in Baltimore, and it's about the drug scene as it is experienced by the players and the cops who police them.  There are five seasons, and each one deals with a different aspect of life in the city.

Season 1 = Sets the scene - good guys vs. bad guys

What I love about this one is how nuanced the characters are.  Some of the good guys are incredibly flawed and some of the bad guys are incredibly kind and generous.

Season 2 = Takes place at the docks

It proves that corruption is everywhere, in every aspect of life in this city.

Season 3 = Social experiment 

This explores how good intentions often leads to unspeakable chaos.

Season 4 = An examination of the public school system

By far and above, the most thorough and accurate look at inner city education in America.

Season 5 = Takes on the newspaper business

This one explores the politics that drives the decision-making process of what goes to press.

If you decide to watch this show, (it's available on Netflix, Hulu, Amazon and others), but don't want to invest in all five seasons, then watch season four.  It's phenomenal.






Thursday, October 16, 2014

An Interesting Article . . .

On an exciting new film debuting today in the US.

What is really fascinating though, are the comments at the end of the post.  Click on the blue tab in the left margin that says "22 comments" to get a glimpse of how much work we STILL have to do.

http://www.nytimes.com/2014/10/17/movies/dear-white-people-about-racial-hypocrisy-at-a-college.html?hp&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&version=HpSumSmallMedia&module=pocket-region&region=pocket-region&WT.nav=pocket-region&_r=0


Being the Only One

Most black folks are used to being in situations where we're the "only one."  The only black face in a sea of white ones.  It can be uncomfortable, but mostly, you learn to adjust and recognize that it is a part of the world in which we live.

Interestingly, I met a white woman here who is experiencing the same thing.  She's been in situations where she's the only one, and she was sharing how awkward and uncomfortable she feels.  I told her, "Welcome to my world."  Although to be fair, now that I'm in the Middle East, most folks look more like me.

Anyway, I ran across this article that discusses a little black girl who is the "only one," and how her folks helped her to navigate these waters.

http://www.essence.com/2014/10/16/when-your-child-only-black-girl-class

Wednesday, October 15, 2014

What Going to Work Looks Like Around the World

Revealing images beyond the suit and tie concept of work.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/15/urban-photographer-of-the_n_5984840.html

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

A View of America

Real.

Raw.

Unflattering.

Hopeful.

This is Bob Herbert's view of America.  See him below being interviewed by Bill Moyers as he discusses his new book, Losing Our Way.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/bill-moyers/watch-restoring-an-americ_b_5984038.html

Side note -

Mr. Herbert was a columnist for the New York Times, and in 1995 he wrote an article about Ben.  As such, he will always have a special place in my heart.

Read it below.

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In America; The Valedictorian's Un-Graduation
By BOB HERBERT
Published: June 24, 1995

By all accounts, Ben Sharpe is a great student. When his final marks for the eighth grade at the Capital Christian Center School in Sacramento, Calif., were faxed to this office, a New York Times staffer exclaimed: "Wow! Look at this report card!"

Nothing but A's. One teacher had inserted on the report card: "Student work excellent. Exceptional pleasure in class." Ben's final grade-point average was 4.0, the highest possible at his school. He won the Superintendent's Award as the "most outstanding" eighth-grade student and was chosen to be class valedictorian.

On Monday, June 5, the day before graduation, Ben, who is 13 and one of only a small number of African-American youngsters at the predominantly white school, was taken aside by the principal and told he would not be allowed to deliver his graduation speech. Later his family was informed that he would be barred from graduation ceremonies altogether. He would not, school officials said, be welcome. The ostensible reason: his hair was too short.

The real reason: his skin was too black.

The Capital Christian Center, which runs the school, is a large Assemblies of God congregation. "It's very conservative, very right-wing," said Ben's mother, Faye Sharpe. "The reason we moved the kids out of public school was because we wanted a very strong base in reading, writing and arithmetic. This school has that."

The Sharpe family is as all-American as you can get, unless you confine the term "All-American" to whites. Ben's father, Frank, is a pilot with United Airlines. Faye Sharpe is a pharmacist who has put her career on hold in order to be home with their two children, Ben and Frank 2d, who is 11. The family is Christian and very religious.

When Ben was barred from his graduation, the family was staggered. "There is nothing the school could have done that would have hurt Ben or this family more," Mrs. Sharpe said.

The school claimed that Ben's haircut, which was very short (and very common among African-American boys) violated a dress code that prohibits shaved heads. It should be stressed that Ben's head was not shaved. He had gone to the barber shop the Saturday before graduation because he was proud of the fact that he would be speaking at the ceremony and he wanted to look his best.

"I wanted to give the school the benefit of the doubt," Mrs. Sharpe said, "but my husband never once thought it was the haircut. The haircut was just an excuse and he was able to see through that. There is nothing that Ben could have done that would have been good enough."

The parents pleaded with school officials to relent. They would not. While his classmates graduated at the 7 P.M. ceremony, Ben was playing in a senior league baseball game.

"That night, about 9:30 or so, friends started to call," said Mrs. Sharpe. "They said, 'Faye, they didn't even call his name at the graduation.' There was no acknowledgment at all that the boy existed."

This is not a story with a sad ending.

A reporter named Fahizah Alim wrote about Ben in The Sacramento Bee. The response was overwhelming. Local television and radio picked up the story. Readers, viewers and listeners were outraged. People began phoning and writing messages of support to the Sharpes. Many sent gifts for Ben.

When officials at a local public school heard what had happened, they invited Ben to speak at their graduation. He would be welcome there, the vice principal said.

"Quite frankly, I was moved to tears," said Mrs. Sharpe.

Last week, under extreme pressure, the pastor of Capital Christian Center apologized. The Rev. Glen Cole acknowledged that "perhaps" Ben's punishment "was a little harsh under the circumstances."

Neither of the Sharpe boys will be back at the school next year. Ben had already been accepted at a Jesuit high school. Now his brother will be enrolled in a different school too. Mrs. Sharpe insisted, however, that while her family felt betrayed, no one was bitter.

"Not to forgive them would be inviting a cancer inside of me that I just refuse to allow to grow," she said. "So I know I need to move on."

http://www.nytimes.com/1995/06/24/opinion/in-america-the-valedictorian-s-un-graduation.html?module=Search&mabReward=relbias%3Ar%2C%7B%221%22%3A%22RI%3A5%22%7D


Testimony From an Unvaccinated Mom

Powerful message.

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/family/2014/01/growing_up_unvaccinated_a_healthy_lifestyle_couldn_t_prevent_many_childhood.html

Audio Alternative

I like listening to music while I drive.

Many other people like listening to books.  I love to read, but somehow listening to a book is just not the same as reading it.

I just discovered a podcast that tells one true story over the course of the season.

I haven't heard it yet, but it's gotten great reviews.  I plan to check it out the next time I hit the road for a road trip.

Here's more info below.

http://serialpodcast.org

Reminders of Fall

I miss the seasonal changes.

It's starting to cool off here, but it's still 90 degrees by 9:00 in the morning.

This article reminded me of what most of you are experiencing . . . cool brisk weather.

So, do me a favor . . .

Enjoy of cup of hot apple cider for me.

Here's some yummy sounding recipes.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/14/apple-cider-cocktail-reci_n_3983575.html

Saturday, October 11, 2014

Airline Announcements

These are hilarious!

Hat tip to Forrest for sharing them.

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United Flight Attendant announced, 'People, people we're not picking out furniture here, find a seat and get in it!

 ************ *********  ********* *******

 On landing, the stewardess  said, 'Please be sure to take all of your belongings.. If you're going to leave anything, please make sure it's something we'd like to have. '

 ************ *********  ********* *******

'There may be  50 ways to leave your lover, but there are only 4 ways out of this airplane'

 ************ *********  ********* *******


An airline pilot wrote that on this particular flight he had hammered his ship  into the runway really hard. The airline had a policy which required the first officer to stand at the door while the passengers exited, smile, and give them a 'Thanks for flying our airline.' He said  that, in light of his bad landing, he had a hard time looking the passengers in the eye, thinking that someone would have a smart comment. Finally, everyone had gotten off except for a little old  lady walking with a cane.

She said, 'Sir, do you mind if I ask you a question?'

'Why, no, Ma'am,' said the pilot. 'What is it?'

The little old lady said,  'Did we land, or were we shot down?'

 ************ *********  ********* *********

As the plane landed and was coming to a stop at Ronald Reagan, a lone voice came over the loudspeaker: 'Whoa, big fella, WHOA!' ;

 ************ *********  ********* ********* ****

After a particularly rough landing during thunderstorms in Memphis, a flight attendant on a Northwest flight announced, 'Please take care when opening the  overhead compartments because sure as hell everything has shifted after a landing like that.'

 ************ *********  ********* *******

Another flight attendant's comment on a less than perfect landing: 'We ask you to please remain seated as Captain Kangaroo bounces us to the terminal.'

 ************ *********  ********* *******

Overheard on an American Airlines flight into Amarillo , Texas on a particularly windy and bumpy day: During the final approach, the Captain was really having  to fight it. After an extremely hard landing, the Flight Attendant said, 'Ladies and Gentlemen, welcome to Amarillo ... Please remain  in your seats with your seat belts fastened while the Captain taxis what's left of our airplane to the gate!'

 ************ *********  ********* *****

'Your seat cushions can be used for flotation; and, in the event of an emergency water landing,  please paddle to shore and take them with our compliments. '

 ************ *********  ********* *****

'As you exit the plane, make sure to gather all of your belongings. Anything left behind will be distributed evenly among the flight attendants. Please do not leave children or spouses..... ....except for that gentleman over there.'

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Heard on Southwest Airlines  just after a very hard landing in Salt Lake City.
The flight  attendant came on the intercom and said, 'That was quite a bump, and  I know what y'all are thinking. I'm here to tell you it wasn't the airline's fault, it wasn't the pilot's fault, it wasn't the flight  attendant's fault, it was the asphalt.'

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After a real crusher of a landing in Phoenix, the attendant came on with, 'Ladies and Gentlemen, please remain in your seats until Capt. Crash and the Crew have brought the aircraft to a screeching halt against the  gate. And, once the tire smoke has cleared and the warning bells are  silenced, we'll open the door and you can pick your way through the wreckage to the terminal.'

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Part of a flight attendant's arrival announcement: 'We'd like to thank you folks for flying with us today. And, the next time you get the insane urge to go blasting  through the skies in a pressurized metal tube, we hope you'll think of US Airways..'

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Heard on a Southwest Airline  flight - 'Ladies and gentlemen, if you wish to smoke, the smoking  section on this airplane is on the wing and if you can light 'em,  you can smoke 'em.'

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A plane was taking off from Kennedy Airport . After it reached a comfortable cruising altitude,  the captain made an announcement over the intercom; 'Ladies and  gentlemen, this is your captain speaking. Welcome to Flight Number 293, nonstop from New York to Los Angeles . The weather ahead is good and, therefore, we should have a smooth and uneventful flight.  Now sit back and relax.... OH, MY GOD!'
Silence followed, and after  a few minutes, the captain came back on the intercom and said,  'Ladies and Gentlemen, I am so sorry if I scared you earlier. While I was talking to you, the flight attendant accidentally spilled a cup of hot coffee in my lap. You should see the front of my pants!'

 A passenger in coach yelled,  'That's nothing. You should see the back of mine!'
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Free College Tuition!

With the skyrocketing cost of a college education in the US, Germany is providing an unimaginable alternative . . . free college tuition . . . to American citizens!

Please pass this on far and wide.

http://www.dailykos.com/story/2014/10/10/1335669/-Germany-offers-free-college-tuition-to-U-S-and-international-students?detail=email


Wednesday, October 8, 2014

More on the Debate

Nicolas Kristof was also on the panel on Bill Maher's show (see earlier post "I like Bill, but . . . "), and he offers a more nuanced approach on the subject of violence in the Muslim world.

http://www.nytimes.com/2014/10/09/opinion/nicholas-kristof-the-diversity-of-islam.html?hp&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&module=c-column-top-span-region&region=c-column-top-span-region&WT.nav=c-column-top-span-region&_r=0

My People

Etihad Airlines, the official airlines of Abu Dhabi, offers this:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/01/airplane-suite-etihad-airlines-residence_n_5913788.html

I like Bill, but . . .

The "Bill" I'm referring to is Bill Maher.

I like his show, Real Time With Bill Maher, on HBO.  The format is a panel discussion on current events, with the panel rotating each week.

Most times, I'm in Bill's corner, but this week, he made some broad statements about Muslims and Islam that I think he got totally wrong.  As a guest in a Muslim country, I have experienced first hand the tolerance and acceptance of outsiders and it has been noteworthy.

Are there crazies in this world?

Probably.

Are they the majority?

Absolutely not.

Judge this debate for yourself.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/walker-bragman/another-bill-maherben-aff_b_5942382.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular

Smart Young Man Helps His Grandpa

This kid created a sensor that his grandfather (who has Alzheimer's) wears.  It signals an alert on his caregiver's phone when he's wandering off.

This has tremendous potential to help so many people.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/10/07/teen-invents-wearable-sensor_n_5941190.html


Christmas Gift Idea?

For the geek-in-training.

A computer that kids can build and then program.

Kinda steep at $149.00, but imagine the bragging rights!

Designed for ages 6-14.

Check it out.

http://www.usatoday.com/story/tech/columnist/baig/2014/10/07/clever-kano-kit-lets-kid-build-computers-and-learn-to-code/16857175/


Monday, October 6, 2014

Ancient Times

Today I visited the Garni Temple and the Geghard Monastery.  It was like walking back in time.

Walkway leading to the Garni Temple


A view along the way

Garni Temple stands alone against the backdrop of the mountains.
It was built in the 1st century,
 destroyed by earthquake in 1679 and reconstructed in 1975.
It truly is spectacular!


Closer up


A view of the majestic mountain range that surrounds the temple

This is the Geghard Monastery.  The photo was found online.
It captures what I could not.
The monastery has been designated as a UNESCO World Heritage Site.
It dates back to 1215.


This monument is along the entryway path to the monastery.


A close-up of the monument



The front of the monastery.




Another view of the entrance

I wanted to capture the turrets, seen from the front,
but I couldn't get them all in one shot.

Not sure what the purpose of this is,
but there were several "v" shape indented areas of the building.



A small alleyway between the church and the mountain.



These steps lead to a small dark archway, used for praying maybe?

I'm standing in one of the large archways looking out.

The monastery was built into the mountain
where many religious symbols are carved in the rocks.

Although you can't see them, there are doors are either side of this archway.

This is inside the monastery.  It was incredibly dark,
with just a small single window in the middle of the main room.

This is one of the pillars in the monastery.

This is the sole source of light found in the ceiling.

This is another photo found online.
It gives a much better view that I could capture of the inside of the monastery.


This is an altar that looks ready for service.

This is to the left of the altar.

The mountains are huge.
I wanted to show how high they are relative to where we were.

Armenia was not on my radar to visit, but I'm glad I did.

The people were kind and helpful.  

It appears to be homogenous population.  There was no evidence of other ethnic groups.  There were ten of us in my tour group, and four of us were black (from the US).  Quite unusual, for sure.  The others were white, (also from the US) and Arabic (from Syria, Jordan and Egypt).  We brought the color with us.

Other observations:

The Armenians drive like we do, on the right, but the taxi I rode in today had it's steering wheel on the right.  All other cars on the road had theirs on the left.  Not sure why the cab was different and the driver's English wasn't well enough to try and figure out.

Speaking of language, thankfully almost everyone I came in contact spoke some English.  On any given day I'm around folks who speak three and four languages . . . fluently.  This is an area where I'm lacking in.  We really must do a better job in the US of making we are multi-lingual.  

It's time to pack up and get ready to go.  We have an early departure tomorrow.

As always, thanks for taking this ride with me.